Sunday, 26 April 2015

To The Single Ladies & Men: A Story That You Need To Read


Many feel that this saying isn't true ''behind every successful man there is a strong, wise and hard working woman''. The below story affirms this saying. 

One night President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of routine and go for a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn't too luxurious. 

When they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the President’s secret service if he could please speak to the First Lady in private. They obliged and Michelle had a conversation with the owner.

Following this conversation, President Obama asked Michelle, “Why was he so interested in talking to you?"
She mentioned that in her teenage years, he had been madly in love with her.

President Obama then said, “So if you had married him, you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant?" Michelle responded, “No, if I had married him, he would now be the President Of The US.”

*** Before our very eyes, we all saw how Michelle Obama made President Barack Obama elected. 

The moral lesson of this story like a wise one once said ''ladies. don't look for a man who is already perfect...chances are, another woman made him perfect. Look for a man who you will make perfect''... Within you lies great power beyond what you can ever imagine. It is never by how far but by how well. 

To the single men out there, never underestimate the power of the woman who you will call your wife... Most times, achieving your dreams to be successful and becoming the man who you always see yourself as lies with a woman who is wise, strong and hard-working... your wife, like the popular saying. 

And if you happen to be successful before getting married, don't say there is possibly any help a woman can render to me. Never underestimate how many more things you can and will achieve with your wife. You might have built a mansion as a single man but with a woman by yourself, as a team, you two will build an EMPIRE. 

When you finally say ''I do'' be loyal and always work as a team lest another woman come in and destroy all your years of hard-work. 

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  1. Exactly on point Chi. This is really crucial for Nigerian youths that are single cause the absence of this facts brings about broken homes in the future. Check some reasons why some Nigerian marriages fail most times»

    1. I am glad you agreed with me dear.
      Please do share with others to inspire them too.

  2. Have been trying so hard to comment,nice to be bck.Tonia

  3. Wow, what a lovely story. "Behind every successful man there is a strong, wise and hard working woman''. Thanks for sharing. Miss the family so much.

    1. You are welcome dear. I am glad you were inspired.
      We miss you too.

  4. Pls how do I subscribe ....for this I can get alert when you post

    1. Ok dear. If you are using a mobile phone, please scroll down with your phone dear, you will see ''view web version'', by the right hand side, you will see it there.
      If you are using a system, you will see it by the right hand side.

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  7. Wow,I love this inspiration. Good job dear

  8. Wow,I love this inspiration. Pls I need more
    I love to hear it more.

  9. Very true Chidinma


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