Sunday, 21 December 2014

Am I Good Enough For The One I Love?


Many atimes we let our flaws and imperfections get the best of us especially when we have feelings for someone or when we are crushing on someone. We wonder, if we are good enough? Will someone ever love me for me? Will someone like that, love someone like me? Can someone like me be with someone like him/her? My flaws are so many. I am so imperfect. I am too short. I am too tall. I have big eyes. I have big legs. I have long legs. I am too fat. I have fat feet. I have big lips. My nails are horrible... and the list goes on and on.

Maybe you have heard that he or she like certain type of people and you no where fall into the category of the kind of people he or she likes.  But I want you to also know that, it is okay...very okay to be imperfect. Don't you know that it is a BIG DEAL for a perfect God to create you and the person you think you might not be good enough for is no where near perfect.

I want to say to you today, pause, take a deep breath and listen carefully to these words ''YOUR FLAWS ARE PERFECT FOR THE HEART THAT IS MEANT TO LOVE YOU''. What if the person you have a crush on or feelings for isn't the person you will end up with?

God created you and He is never wrong for creating you the way you are. In His eyes, you are beyond perfect. H has created someone who will love your good side, your bad side and your ugly side. He has created someone who will love everything excluding nothing about you. He has created someone who will adore love, love you, respect you, appreciate you and forever live each day thanking God for creating you just the way you are.

All that is required of you is to:
1) Stop worrying about your flaws and imperfections
2) Appreciate your flaws.
3) Fall in love with yourself-
Get to know yourself more. Get to appreciate the good things about you. Build and improve yourself for that is the greatest gift you can ever give yourself.
Here >>> is a post on Fall In Love With Yourself to know and learn more.
4) Give God your heart and allow Him place it in the hands of the right man/woman.
And when God does, you will realise and understand that all along, you were good enough.

So I say to you today, stop worrying cos ''your flaws are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you'' and YES, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!

Be Inspired.

P.S- You might also be interested in - What To Do Before, During And After A First Date- Part A (Ladies)
What To Do Before, During And After A First Date- Part B (Men)
Every Girl’s Dream And The Best Thing To Ever Happen To A Man

I hope you were inspired? Please do share with others to inspire them as well.

Yours Truly,

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  1. Hmmm, what a post... most times we worry ourselves over nothing and lose what we are suppose to have possession of, just because we worry too much....

    Thanks for the post...


  2. Right in time! Have been thinking about issues like this since morning...this post is quite educative and inspiring,thank you aunty chi


    1. You are welcome dear. I am glad, you were inspired.

  3. Wow! This is like the best thing I've read today. Great great.

    1. Awww. Thank you dear. I do appreciate it. I am glad you were inspired.


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