Tuesday, 17 March 2015

Does Long Distance Relationship Really Work? Let's Talk

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 Hello Beautiful People!
Welcome to another episode of In House Round Table Talk 

Everyone or should I say 85% of people feel that there is a slim chance of a long distance relationship becoming a success. It's been commonly frowned at when people say they are in a long distance relationship. Many feel that there are chances of one been replaced or cheated on and so forth.
This discourages a whole lot of people from even thinking about entering into one or giving it a chance in the first place.

Today's episode is to give hope to the hopeless as regards their relationships. It is to strengthen relationships that are at the verge of breaking because of the negative words and thoughts of people or because of being indecisive whether to go forward with their relationship. Today's episode is to inspire someone out there to give love a chance.

So I ask, does long distance relationship really work? Let's hear your views on this topic. Let's inspire and motivate someone on this topic. Your view might help save a relationship or even a marriage.

My View

First thing first. We broke it down here >>> the number one factor that makes many detest their lives, passion, goals & visions (powerful article, I must say!) The opinions of people are like the wind. It will always blow in your direction, always... What matters is that you lay a solid foundation on yourself so that when the wind of their opinions blows in your direction, it will be very difficult for it to destroy or move you.

The truth is, YES long distance relationships do work, any time any day. I am of the opinion that long distance relationships are more like every other relationship. Be it relationships within a town or city or relationships across the ocean. Every relationship is hard work. If you really want something to work, if something really means a lot to you, you have to work hard for it.

Many say because of been replaced or cheated on, that long distance relationship is a no no...However, there are cases of been cheated on or been replaced when the couple (s) are living not so far from each other and there are cases of long distance relationships maturing into marriages and them growing old together. If a relationship is meant to be, it will be irrespective of the distance.

The thing is, there are 3 main things that makes any relationship stand the test of time and they are:
1) True love
2) Trust and
3) Communication

These 3 go hand in hand. If you really love someone the way you say you do, you will want to hear from them every second or every chance you have. You just can never get tired of hearing from them and there will always be something to say.

Communication makes you learn, develop and build each other. Lack of communication destroys everything. Be it a relationship, marriage, friendship, work/business relationship...everything. Communication really is key.
Also, the love you have for someone will give you reasons to trust them because they have earned your trust.

This is my view on this topic. I might be wrong. My views might be so different from so. That's why we are hear to inspire, learn and educate one another. Don't worry your views will be greatly respected and appreciated.

So, let's hear your views. Please do invite your views to join us on this topic.

Yours Truly,
Chidinma


P.S- Please find below our last In House Round Table Talk
Should A Woman Be A Career Wife/Mum After She Is Married? Let's Talk
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8 comments :

Paul Oyegbenga said...

Long distance relationship is or has never been my thing, I end up fucking up or the other way round. But I have come to terms with the fact that the distance is temporal and if there is true love and understanding it would work out fine.

Majority of my relationship has been long distance once but I think my current one is actually working out now, I have learn to manage and take my mind off past issues.

But if it fails again then am not gonna try it ever again.

Chidinma Inspirations said...

Dear Paul,
Thank you for your view on this topic. It is greatly respected and appreciated.

anthonia eghaghe said...

Aunty chi,how you? I sent you an email few mins ago.let me go back and comment.

anthonia eghaghe said...

My view on this topic is that distance is not a barrier.Of course long distance relationships works most of the time,that is if you've got trust for each other.its not easy I must say for a loved one to be miles away.but you just have to make it work,and that's where communication comes in.just like if your married to a man that's travels all the time because of the business he does.So love,trust and communication is key.when its come to a distance relationship.

Chidinma Inspirations said...

Lol at let me go back and comment.
I have seen it dear. Please check your inbox for the reply.
Dear Anthonia, please call me Chidinma. Chidinma is fine by me. *Smiles*

Chidinma Inspirations said...


Dear Anthonia,
Thank you for your view on this topic. It is greatly respected and appreciated.

INSTINCT wears said...

Just trust each other and do what best for both of you and the relationship.

Chidinma Inspirations said...

Dear INSTINCT wears,
Thank you for your view on this topic. It is greatly respected and appreciated.